Kevin Stone can make grown men cry. He can also make them stop
smoking, lose weight and play better basketball. He can even make
a guy who has never danced in his life rise up on the toes of
his Timberlands and launch into an intricate classical ballet,
complete with dainty pirouettes and dramatic grand jeté
leaps, which is pretty funny to watch onstage.
Stone, a.k.a. the “Hollywood Hypnotist,” has been
making people do stuff they didn’t think they could for
10 years. A Delta Frequent Flyer, Stone, 40, balances a clinical
hypnotherapy practice in Southern California with a career as
a stage hypnotist, complete with Las Vegas–style special
effects and a booking schedule that keeps him on the road two
to three weeks each month. Some people might have trouble reconciling
the satin-suited showman with the gabardine-clad clinician,
but Stone flies between the theatrical world and the clinical
environment with the greatest of ease. Moments after the end
of a lively show at the L.A. County Fair last September, he
was down off the stage counseling audience members who had lined
up to seek his advice.
“If you’re smoking, if it’s a weight issue,
or you want to increase your earning power, gain more confidence—whatever
it is you want to think about, you can change through hypnosis,”
says Stone. “Your mind is like a computer system. What
I do, I am really a computer programmer. I take out that negative
programming . . . and replace it with positive programming.”
Stone sees clients at two hypnotherapy clinics, one in San
Diego, where he lives, and the other in Los Angeles. People
come to him with a range of issues, but he has developed a specialty
in helping sports figures and entertainers enhance their professional
performance. He also does pro bono work at White Memorial Medical
Center in East L.A., where he trains physicians and other medical
professionals in techniques to help patients manage pain. But
most of the time he’s taking his hypno-show on the road,
whether it’s headlining at a comedy club, performing at
a corporate special event or providing the entertainment at
a fair. Stone is upbeat about his high-pressure lifestyle. “When
it comes to my hectic schedule, I don’t really see it
as work,” he explains. “I see every day as a party.
I enjoy every second of it.”
Hypnosis was not Stone’s original career plan. With
a degree in communications, he had hoped to be a news anchor
or sports commentator—“the next Ted Koppel,”
he recalls. But along the way he happened to sign up for a basic
course on hypnosis that he thought might help him stop his longtime
nail-biting habit. Within a few sessions, Stone did indeed stop
biting his nails. As it turned out, Ted Koppel could stop biting
his nails, too, because the initial exposure to the power of
hypnosis was enough to launch Stone on a new career path. He
completed a two-year program at the Hypnosis Motivation Institute
in Tarzana, California, earning a certification in hypnotherapy
and later becoming board-certified.
Stone is quick to say that when it comes to hypnotism, he was
the original skeptic. “I didn’t believe in it, to
tell you the truth,” he says. “I believed what everybody
else thinks hypnosis is, the old Svengali guy with the hypnodisc
[the spiral-patterned disc used by some hypnotists] and the
watch that he’s swinging, and he’s controlling you,
and like the old ‘Columbo’ shows, you’re hypnotized
to jump off cliffs and kill people and all that silliness.”
Skeptics would do well to take in one of Stone’s stage
shows, where he demonstrates an uncanny ability to get inside
people’s heads in a remarkably short time. During a typical
performance he asks for volunteers from the audience, seats
them onstage and within a few minutes has caused most of them
to fall into a hypnotic state so deep that they collapse on
each other like a row of snuggling puppies. The most suggestible
of the subjects instantly obey Stone’s every command,
from dancing ballet to speaking only Japanese—actually
complete gibberish that sounds like Japanese. Stone sets up
several very funny situations, but he takes care not to ridicule
his “stars,” and closes each show with a brief hypnotherapy
session designed to address issues that the subjects might want
to change.
Stone’s onstage assistant is his wife, Yvette, whom he
met while performing at a comedy club in Texas six years ago
and married last year. During shows, she helps make the complicated
task of hypnotizing a large group of people look effortless.
Offstage, she facilitates the complicated task of getting her
husband from one coast to the other. Both Stones take a disciplined
approach to travel. They bring along a considerable amount of
production equipment, but when it comes to personal baggage,
they have learned to simplify. “People tend to overpack
because of insecurity; you’re unsure of what the weather
might be or what you might need,” says the Hollywood Hypnotist.
“Well, you don’t need it. Wherever you go there’s
a laundromat or a store. We take exactly what we need and no
more.”
When you’re the entertainment, there’s a lot riding
on your on-time arrival. “People have paid good money
for the 8 o’clock show, and if I’m not there—the
stress and anxiety for someone like me is much greater than
for your normal traveler,” Stone observes. But while your
normal traveler might have a meltdown when there’s a snag
in the trip, Stone says he never lets it get to him. “I
use self-hypnosis to allow myself to remain calm, relaxed, confident,
secure,” he says. “The mind is a very powerful tool,
and I only project complete and total positives; I actually
see the pictures of how it’s going to lay out for me when
I travel. And I must tell you, I don’t have any problems
at all.”
Last year he was in Wilson, North Carolina, performing six
nights at the county fair, a booking that happened to coincide
with Hurricane Isabel’s sweep up the mid-Atlantic coast.
“Even with the hurricane, I never even considered not
getting home, or the airport having problems,” Stone says.
“Now, maybe some negative things do happen, but I don’t
really recognize them, or they’re not as major an issue
to me as they would be to someone else.”
The Stones’ touring schedule leaves little time for
personal travel. In fact, while their wedding was profiled last
year on TLC’s “A Wedding Story,” the newlyweds
haven’t yet gone on their wedding trip. “We do so
much traveling, we’re always on a honeymoon,” jokes
Kevin Stone. “For us, a honeymoon would be two weeks at
home in San Diego.”
—Jean T. Barrett